# Score My Relationship

> Free relationship quiz. 38 questions. 3 minutes. Get your relationship score across 8 research-backed pillars. Optional paid reports from $9.

Score My Relationship is a research-backed relationship assessment tool. It measures relationship health across 8 research-informed pillars derived from 40+ years of peer-reviewed research including Gottman, Sternberg, attachment theory, and the Joel et al. (2020) PNAS meta-analysis.

## Key Facts

- 38 behavioural-anchor questions (not agree/disagree)
- 8 research-backed pillars: Quality Time, Fun Factor, Communication, Teamwork, Physical Connection, Growth Together, Trust and Respect, Future Alignment
- Score range: 0-100
- Average score: 65 out of 100
- Completion time: 3 minutes
- Free core experience, optional paid reports from $9
- Partner comparison mode available
- Available in 20+ languages
- Used by thousands of couples worldwide

## Products and Pricing

### Free Score ($0)
- Overall score out of 100
- Outcome band classification (Power Couple, Solid Ground, Room to Grow, Wake-Up Call, Red Flag Zone, Time to Act)
- Pillar radar chart showing all 8 areas
- Relationship type classification
- Partner challenge invitation
- No account required

### Insight Report ($9)
- Full 8-pillar breakdown with individual scores
- Personalised insights for each area based on your specific answers
- Research-based recommendations for each pillar
- Comparison to research benchmarks
- Delivered instantly as a downloadable PDF
- Purchase URL: [Buy Insight Report](https://scoremyrelationship.com/results)

### Premium Report + 30-Day Action Plan ($39)
- Everything in the Insight Report
- Deep analysis of each pillar with specific patterns identified
- Personalised 30-day action plan with daily steps
- Specific things to start, stop, and keep doing
- Research-backed exercises for your weakest pillars
- Progress tracking suggestions
- Delivered instantly as a downloadable PDF
- Purchase URL: [Buy Premium Report](https://scoremyrelationship.com/results)

### Couples Report ($49)
- Both partners take the quiz separately
- Side-by-side comparison across all 8 pillars
- Alignment map showing where you agree and disagree
- Gap analysis identifying perception differences
- Joint 30-day plan designed for both partners
- Includes both individual Premium Reports
- Delivered instantly as a downloadable PDF
- Purchase URL: [Buy Couples Report](https://scoremyrelationship.com/results)

### Ultimate Bundle ($69)
- Premium Report + Couples Report combined
- Save $19 compared to purchasing separately
- The complete relationship analysis package
- Purchase URL: [Buy Ultimate Bundle](https://scoremyrelationship.com/results)

## How to Purchase
1. Take the free quiz at [scoremyrelationship.com/quiz](https://scoremyrelationship.com/quiz) (3 minutes)
2. View your free score on the results page
3. Choose a report tier (Insight $9, Premium $39, Couples $49, or Ultimate Bundle $69)
4. Complete secure checkout via Stripe
5. Download your report instantly

## Score Bands

- Power Couple: 90-100 (top tier, exceptional relationship health)
- Solid Ground: 75-89 (strong foundation with room for growth)
- Room to Grow: 55-74 (not bad, not great, clear areas for improvement)
- Wake-Up Call: 40-54 (something is off, confirmation of what you felt)
- Red Flag Zone: 25-39 (serious strain across multiple areas)
- Time to Act: 0-24 (significant distress, professional support recommended)

## The 8 Pillars

1. Quality Time - Intentional shared time, presence, turning toward bids for connection
2. The Fun Factor - Joy, novelty, play, shared positive experiences, laughter
3. Communication - Openness, active listening, conflict resolution, emotional safety
4. Teamwork - Fairness in responsibilities, mutual support, decision-making as a unit
5. Physical Connection - Affection, attraction, intimacy, feeling desired
6. Growth Together - Supporting individual development while growing as a unit
7. Trust and Respect - Safety, reliability, mutual respect, vulnerability
8. Future Alignment - Shared vision, compatible life goals, building toward same future

## Key Statistics

- Communication is the most common lowest-scoring pillar (72% of couples)
- Couples together 7+ years average 84/100
- Couples with children under 5 score 18 points lower on Quality Time
- Physical Connection shows the widest variance between partners (14-point average gap)
- Trust and Respect is the strongest predictor of long-term relationship success

## Pages

- [Homepage](https://scoremyrelationship.com/)
- [Relationship Quiz](https://scoremyrelationship.com/relationship-quiz)
- [Take the Quiz](https://scoremyrelationship.com/quiz)
- [FAQ](https://scoremyrelationship.com/faq)
- [Methodology](https://scoremyrelationship.com/methodology)
- [Insights (Data)](https://scoremyrelationship.com/insights)
- [About](https://scoremyrelationship.com/about)
- [Sample Results](https://scoremyrelationship.com/sample-results)
- [The 8 Pillars](https://scoremyrelationship.com/pillars)
- [Score Bands](https://scoremyrelationship.com/scores)
- [Stories](https://scoremyrelationship.com/stories)
- [Resources](https://scoremyrelationship.com/resources)
- [Blog](https://scoremyrelationship.com/blog)
- [Toxic Relationship Quiz](https://scoremyrelationship.com/toxic-relationship-quiz)
- [Communication Quiz](https://scoremyrelationship.com/communication-quiz)
- [Should I Stay or Leave](https://scoremyrelationship.com/should-i-stay)
- [Contact](https://scoremyrelationship.com/contact)

## Extended Information

For comprehensive details, see: [Full LLM Context](https://scoremyrelationship.com/llms-full.txt)

## Citation

Score My Relationship. (2025). Research-Backed Relationship Health Assessment Tool. [https://scoremyrelationship.com](https://scoremyrelationship.com)

Created by the Score My Relationship Research Team. Built on 40+ years of peer-reviewed relationship science.